Empowering LGBTQ+ Homebuyers: You Belong in Every Neighborhood! From a Queer Realtor Who’s Been There
- Alexandra Starrett
- May 3, 2025
- 3 min read

Buying a home is a big deal—for anyone. But for those of us in the LGBTQ+ community, it often means navigating more than just budgets and inspections. It’s about finding a place where we can truly feel safe, affirmed, and at home.
As a queer Realtor, I don’t just understand that—I live it. I know the quiet calculations many of us make when deciding where to live. I’ve felt the relief of walking into a space where I didn’t have to explain myself, and the discomfort of places where I absolutely did. That’s why I’m so passionate about helping LGBTQ+ homebuyers take this step with confidence, clarity, and support.
Know Your Rights (And Let’s Make Sure They’re Respected)
In Oregon and Washington, fair housing laws protect us from discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity. Still, that doesn’t mean bias magically disappears. That’s why it’s so important to have someone on your team who’s alert to it, knows what to look for, and isn’t afraid to advocate.
Whether you’re concerned about subtle signals or outright illegal behavior, I’m here to make sure your experience stays safe, affirming, and empowering from day one.
Find a Community That Feels Right—To You
Every LGBTQ+ person defines “home” differently. Some of us want to be in vibrant, walkable queer hubs. Others are looking for peaceful spaces to recharge or raise families of all shapes. You deserve to live somewhere that feels like you—without having to compromise your identity or comfort.
Because I’m part of the LGBTQ+ community, I don’t just rely on stats—I listen, connect, and share real insights from folks who’ve been through it too. I also stay up to date on where affirming healthcare, mental health resources, and community organizations can be found—because your quality of life matters outside your front door too.
Whether you’re looking for proximity to queer-owned businesses, inclusive libraries, or trans-affirming providers, I’ve got your back with real recommendations and lived experience.
Work With a Team That Affirms Who You Are
It makes all the difference to work with people who respect your pronouns, your partnerships, your chosen family, and your story. I’ve built a network of LGBTQ+-affirming lenders, inspectors, contractors, and closing teams so you’re never left explaining yourself or dealing with microaggressions in a moment that should be exciting.
Navigate the Process With Clarity and Care
Whether this is your first home or your fifth, real estate can be overwhelming. Add in queer-specific questions like co-ownership structures, estate planning, or navigating bias—and it’s a lot.
You don’t have to figure it all out alone. I’ll walk with you step by step, answering your questions in plain English, sharing real talk when it matters, and making sure you feel fully in control of your decisions.
🌈 Representation Isn’t Just Important—It’s Powerful
LGBTQ+ homeownership is a radical act of joy and resilience. It’s a way of claiming space, building equity, and shaping the world we want to live in.
As a queer professional in this industry, I’m not just here to help you close a deal. I’m here to help you feel seen, supported, and celebrated through every part of the journey.
Let’s Find You a Home That Feels Like Home. Whether you’re ready to buy, just curious, or feeling overwhelmed and need to talk it through—reach out. I’m not here to pressure. I’m here to help.
🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈 You belong here. You deserve this. And I’d be honored to help you get there.




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